My thoughts on the “Friend-zone”

One thing I really hate talking about is guys and perhaps girls complaining about being “friend-zoned.” If you’ve lived under a rock and just now got access to reading this, friend-zoning is when you’re friends with someone you want to have sex with or be in an intimate relationship with.

Since I’m a feminist I think it’s absolutely selfish to think someone owes you sex or romance just because you’ve been “such a good friend to them.” You’re not their friend in this case if you just think about sleeping with them or anything else and masquerade yourself as someone she or he can trust and be comfortable with. Honest friends would not expect anything back.

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